Relax. That’s what I have to tell myself daily at this
point. Why? Well, I’ve reached that point in the relationship where I start to
analyze way too much and pretty much freak out over what we are or are not. But
guess what….it doesn’t matter! Things are going well with Mr. Man for what they
are and that’s all that matters. Last time, with the other pilot, I listened
way too much to people around me. It turns out that other people actually do a
lot more analyzing than I do and well, I’m a girl so that doesn’t help me out
at all. It made me think way too much and ultimately ruin the relationship. At
this point I am happy because I have no interest in him anymore at all and I am
really grateful for the new pilot but I am determined not to over analyze this
time around and to just let things be! And they are good!
So, it’s been over a week since I’ve seen the man in person
and I am kind of dying a little inside but I am really grateful for the phone
calls we have every few days or so. Last Thursday we both went to McDonalds for
dinner and ordered the same thing. Cute huh! And yeah, I know, McDonalds is
kinda gross. Still, it made me all happy inside as McDonalds should! Last night
we talked for an hour and a half. He was driving home from the beach and I was
sitting at home on my computer. He told me exactly where he was so I could look
it up on Google Maps. And then I followed him home while he updated me every so
often on where he was. I followed him all the way to his house. It was so cute!
And fun. :)
We talked about a lot of things…we laughed…we cried…we
planned. Haha…okay, we didn’t really cry but he did tell me that if I die he
will be really mad. I guess that that’s a good sign…that at least he doesn’t he
hate me enough to wish death upon me right? He wants me to live, whew! He also
wants me to raise his puppy. That’s pretty close to kids! Okay, for some people
anyway. We talked about how we know the things that the other person likes, as
far as things we want. He laughed because he wants trees and puppies and I want
guns and knives! We make a good pair! But he knows what kind of gun I want and
I know what kind of tree and what kind of puppy he likes. He is impressed with
my memory and my ability to pay attention and take note of these types of
things…and I do!
As for the points well, those things certainly earned both
of us points but it was later on in the conversation where I felt like he
earned a good sum. You see, I have this super cute dress that I won on my
friend’s coolest blog ever and I wore it to church yesterday. I always get
compliments on it. When the man was here in town we shopped at City Creek and we
looked at a lot of things that were orange. It is a common favorite between us.
We saw a cute orange dress and I told him about the one that I have.
He
pretended not to believe me that I had one so yesterday I sent him a pic of me
in my super cute dress from Shabby Apple. He liked it! We talked about it last
night and I was telling him about how it was from Shabby Apple and he was like,
“oh I love Shabby Apple! I bought my ex-girlfriend a dress from there…” So, points
for him for knowing what that was, and for liking it and buying one for his
girl at the time because they are kind of expensive! And points for me for
having a super cute dress from there. Thanks Mariel! It was a good night. It
left me smiling!
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